{"id":5288,"date":"2025-03-10T14:32:46","date_gmt":"2025-03-10T23:02:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/?p=5288"},"modified":"2026-04-29T13:29:23","modified_gmt":"2026-04-29T21:59:23","slug":"self-injury-awareness-understanding-the-struggle-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/self-injury-awareness-understanding-the-struggle-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Self-Injury Awareness: Understanding the Struggle"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-justify-content-center fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:1248px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:0px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-order-medium:0;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-order-small:0;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-1 fusion-sep-none fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-one\" style=\"--awb-margin-top-small:10px;--awb-margin-right-small:0px;--awb-margin-bottom-small:10px;--awb-margin-left-small:0px;--awb-font-size:28px;\"><h1 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left\" style=\"margin:0;font-size:1em;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Self-Injury Awareness: Understanding the Struggle<\/span><\/h1><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p><a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/what-to-do-and-not-do-if-your-child-is-self-harming\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Autoflagela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is something a lot of people struggle with in silence, often feeling ashamed or unsure of how to ask for help. But opening up the conversation and talking about it with <a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/walking-in-their-shoes-practical-exercises-to-grow-your-empathy-muscles\/\">empatia<\/a> can make a huge difference. When people feel seen and supported, it can be the first step toward healing. A little understanding really does go a long way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When someone deliberately hurts themselves\u2014often through <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mayoclinic.org\/diseases-conditions\/self-injury\/diagnosis-treatment\/drc-20350956\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">corte<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, burning, or scratching\u2014it\u2019s usually done as a way to cope with overwhelming feelings that come with living with conditions like <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nimh.nih.gov\/health\/topics\/depression\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">depress\u00e3o<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, anxiety, OCD, or past<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/types-of-trauma-and-trauma-informed-care\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">trauma<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. It is a serious sign of emotional distress and a way of trying to manage pain that feels too big to handle alone. Unfortunately, this behavior is still widely misunderstood, and that misunderstanding can make it even harder for people to reach out for help.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fostering understanding is the first step to helping people find healthier ways to cope so they can begin to prioritize their psychological well-being and heal.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why would someone self-harm?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The first step<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to helping someone who is struggling is understanding why they might hurt themselves. This behavior isn\u2019t always linked to suicidal ideation. Many times, it\u2019s a way to deal with strong emotions, mental distress, or a feeling of losing control.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People often do this because of internal pain. Some use it to let out feelings like anger, sadness, or<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mayoclinic.org\/diseases-conditions\/anxiety\/symptoms-causes\/syc-20350961\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ansiedade<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Others may want to feel something during times when they feel emotionally numb. For people with mental health challenges like<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nimh.nih.gov\/health\/topics\/obsessive-compulsive-disorder-ocd\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">obsessive-compulsive disorder<\/span><\/a> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">(OCD), hurting themselves may come from obsessive thoughts or behaviors. Survivors of trauma may also turn to this as a way to handle their past experiences or feel in control of their mood.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This can happen to anyone, but it\u2019s especially common among<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/mental-health-issues-in-teens-understanding-the-facts\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">teenagers<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and young adults.<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.apa.org\/monitor\/2015\/07-08\/who-self-injures\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pesquisa<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> shows that about 17% of young people have harmed themselves, usually starting after age 10. Adults may also struggle with this, but they often hide it because of shame or fear of judgment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These behaviors can sometimes be related to other issues like addiction, alcohol use, substance abuse, or <a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/mental-health-vs-mental-illness-differences-support\/\">mental health conditions.<\/a> People may also be dealing with bullying, depression, or a disease that affects the brain. Some may use medication, but that alone might not be enough.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s important to see this behavior as a sign that someone is dealing with something painful, not as a way to get attention. They need support, not blame. Learning why people do this helps us reduce the stigma and encourages healthier ways to cope and heal.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What are the signs of self-harm?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When someone is going through emotional pain, they might turn to physical ways of coping that are often misunderstood. These actions are usually done in secret and can take many forms\u2014not all of them obvious. Recognizing the signs is a crucial step in offering support and understanding.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some of the more common behaviors include:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cutting the skin with sharp objects<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Burning with items like lighters or matches<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Scratching to the point of bleeding<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hitting or punching oneself or walls<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Biting the skin<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Picking at scars or wounds to prevent healing<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pulling out <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/my.clevelandclinic.org\/health\/diseases\/9880-trichotillomania\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">hair<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are also less visible or indirect ways people might hurt themselves, such as:<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Skipping meals or severely <a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/unhealthy-diet-content-weight-loss-trends-mental-health\/\">limiting food<\/a> as a form of punishment<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Depriving themselves of<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/are-bad-sleep-habits-damaging-your-mental-health\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dormir<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Overexercising to the point of exhaustion or pain<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Engaging in reckless behaviors like unsafe driving or risky <a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/supporting-a-loved-one-through-addiction-or-mental-illness\/\">substance use<\/a><\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Consuming non-food or toxic items in small doses<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These behaviors are not about getting attention\u2014they are often ways to manage overwhelming emotions, numbness, or a deep sense of distress. For some, it\u2019s a way to release intense feelings. For others, it\u2019s about feeling something when everything else feels empty or out of control.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Understanding what these actions look like allows us to respond with empathy rather than judgment. By creating safe, supportive spaces where people feel seen and heard, we can help them move toward healthier ways of coping\u2014and remind them that they don\u2019t have to go through it alone.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is the link between self-injury and mental health?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Behaviors like cutting, burning, and hitting oneself are often tied to conditions like depression, anxiety, PTSD, and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). While not everyone who injures themselves has a diagnosed condition, many struggle with intense feelings, past <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">trauma<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, or overwhelming<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/3-different-types-of-stress-and-how-they-affect-you\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">estresse.<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Hurting themselves can become a way to cope, even though it doesn\u2019t truly solve the deeper issues at play.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What defines mental health?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mental wellness isn\u2019t just about the absence of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/what-is-the-connection-between-chronic-disease-and-mental-health\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">doen\u00e7a<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014it\u2019s about how we think, feel, and respond to the world around us. It influences how we manage<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/5-hidden-signs-of-stress-you-shouldnt-ignore\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">estresse<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, relate to others, and make choices. When someone is struggling mentally, their ability to cope in healthy ways can be impacted\u2014and that\u2019s where certain behaviors may come into play.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For some people living with depression, hurting themselves might become a way to feel something when everything else feels numb or empty. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/click-here-for-happiness\/202302\/are-you-emotionally-detached\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Emotional disconnection<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is common in depression, and physical pain can temporarily replace that emotional void.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Those with anxiety disorders might turn to these behaviors as a way to release overwhelming tension or gain a sense of control when everything feels chaotic. It can act like a pressure valve\u2014offering brief relief, even though it doesn\u2019t solve the root of the problem.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People with <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/ptsd-triggers-what-triggers-ptsd-and-how-to-cope\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">TEPT<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (post-traumatic stress disorder), especially those who have experienced abuse, neglect, or violence, may find themselves overwhelmed by memories and emotions tied to trauma. In these cases, physical pain might feel easier to manage than emotional pain.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For individuals with OCD, compulsive behaviors can take many forms\u2014including the urge to hurt themselves\u2014driven by obsessive thoughts. Even if they don\u2019t want to engage in the behavior, it can feel impossible to resist without support or treatment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s important to know that while these actions might give short-term relief, the feeling doesn\u2019t last. The emotional pain underneath is still there. Over time, using these kinds of coping methods can lead to shame, loneliness, and even more mental distress. To improve your quality of life, it\u2019s important to deal with the real emotions causing the pain. Building healthier ways to cope and realizing it\u2019s okay to ask for help are big steps toward better mental wellness.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How does social media affect mental health?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/online-spaces-impact-teen-emotional-wellbeing\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">M\u00eddia social<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> has a complicated effect on mental wellness, especially for <a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/online-spaces-impact-teen-emotional-wellbeing\/\">adolescents<\/a>. On the positive side, it can help spread information about mental health and self-injury, give people access to helpful resources, and provide a sense of community. Many young people feel less alone when they find online spaces that promote healing and offer support from others who understand what they\u2019re going through.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For some, sharing personal stories or reading about others&#8217; experiences can release endorphins, the brain\u2019s natural \u201cfeel-good\u201d chemicals. This can create moments of comfort and <a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/how-to-create-space-where-teens-feel-heard-online-and-off\/\">connection,<\/a> which are important for emotional healing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, social media also has a darker side. It can be a risk factor when it exposes users to harmful or<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/ptsd-triggers-what-triggers-ptsd-and-how-to-cope\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> triggering<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> content\u2014like images or messages that make self-harm seem normal or even appealing. This can lead to unhealthy comparisons and increase social isolation, especially if someone feels like they have no one to talk to in real life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These challenges are part of the larger psychosocial factors that affect a person\u2019s emotional well-being. Things like peer pressure, bullying, and feeling misunderstood by family or friends can make it even harder. A caring <a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/reactive-vs-proactive-parenting-differences\/\">parent<\/a> or trusted adult can play a key role in guiding adolescents through these tough experiences.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The goal isn&#8217;t just to stop the behavior\u2014it\u2019s to understand what\u2019s causing it. With compassion, support, and healthier coping tools, people can learn better ways to handle pain and improve their emotional health. Most of all, they need to know they\u2019re not alone, and that healing is possible.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Common misconceptions about self-injury<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many people find it hard to understand why someone would intentionally hurt themselves. From the outside, it may seem confusing or even scary. But for those who do it, self-harm is often a personal way to cope with mental distress and difficult emotions. Sadly, there\u2019s still a lot of stigma around this topic. That makes it hard for people to speak up or ask for help. Fear of being judged or misunderstood keeps many struggling in silence.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This silence grows worse because of false ideas and myths\u2014especially ones spread on social media or in pop culture. These myths block people from getting the support and care they need. Instead of helping, they lead to more social isolation and shame. By replacing myths with facts and awareness, we can show more compassion and help people heal.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cThey\u2019re hurting themselves for attention.\u201d<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is one of the most harmful myths. Most people who hurt themselves actually try to hide it. They may wear long clothes, avoid certain situations, and feel ashamed. Self-harm is usually a private way of managing intense emotions, not a way to get noticed. And if someone does share their scars or talk about their pain, it\u2019s often a cry for support, not attention. Everyone deserves understanding when they\u2019re hurting.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cOnly teenagers hurt themselves.\u201d<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s true that self-harm is more common in adolescents, but adults struggle too. Many people who began self-injuring as teens continue the habit into adulthood, especially if they never got help. Just because someone is older doesn\u2019t mean their emotional pain has gone away\u2014it may be even harder to see because they\u2019ve learned to hide it better. Parents, teachers, and caregivers should be aware that this behavior can affect anyone at any age.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cSelf-harm means someone is suicidal.\u201d<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Self-harm and suicidal thoughts are not the same thing, though they can be linked. Many people use self-harm to cope with their mental state, manage emotional overload, or feel something when they feel numb. But when the root causes\u2014like bullying, trauma, or <a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/the-hidden-epidemic-unpacking-the-mental-health-factors-behind-overdose\/\">abuso de subst\u00e2ncias<\/a>\u2014are not treated, the risk of suicide can increase. That\u2019s why early management and support matter. People don\u2019t need judgment; they need help and understanding.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cIf you can&#8217;t see it, it can&#8217;t be serious.\u201d<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not all pain shows on the outside. Some people may hurt themselves in ways that don\u2019t leave marks, like refusing to eat, skipping sleep, or taking unsafe risks. Others may feel intense emotional pain without acting on it physically. The brain handles emotional pain much like physical pain, and both can affect a person\u2019s health. It\u2019s important not to assume someone is okay just because they seem fine. What we don\u2019t see still matters.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cThey could just stop if they really wanted to.\u201d<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This myth makes it sound like people choose self-harm for fun or can quit anytime. But for many, it becomes a serious habit\u2014a way their brain learns to release tension and create brief relaxation through chemicals like endorphins. Stopping isn\u2019t just about willpower. It takes support, time, and the right coping tools. With therapy, sometimes medication, and the help of a trusted parent or friend, recovery is possible.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Self-harm is not a simple behavior. It\u2019s connected to larger psychosocial issues like trauma, substance abuse, bullying, and untreated mental health conditions. Research and evidence show that these behaviors have a high prevalence in youth, but affect people of all ages. Calling self-harm a \u201cphase\u201d or ignoring it won\u2019t help. What will help is learning the truth, spreading awareness, and making sure no one has to face their pain alone.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to break the stigma surrounding self-injury<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The stigma surrounding self-harming behavior can make people feel very isolated, judged, and misunderstood. Because of this, they\u2019re less likely to open up and ask for help.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Creating an environment where people feel safe to talk about their struggles without fear of being judged is vital. The more we educate ourselves and others, the more we can break the cycle of silence and help those who are struggling to find healthier ways to cope.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to support someone who self-harms<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If someone you care about is hurting themselves, it can feel overwhelming and heartbreaking. You might not know what to say or worry about saying the wrong thing. You might even feel frustrated or scared. But the most important thing you can do is be there\u2014and listen.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Listen without judgment<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many people who injure themselves feel ashamed, embarrassed, or afraid that others won\u2019t understand. Instead of reacting with shock or anger, try to listen with care and empathy. Let them share their <\/span><b>painful emotions<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in their own words. You don\u2019t have to fix everything right away. Saying something like, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI\u2019m here for you, and I want to understand what you\u2019re going through,\u201d<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can make them feel supported and safe.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Encourage professional help<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Self-harming behaviors are often signs of serious emotional struggles or a <\/span>crisis. It\u2019s important to remind them they\u2019re not alone and that help is available. Encourage them to reach out to a therapist, counselor, or other professional. Behavioral health services<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, like those offered at Pacific Health Group, can make a real difference. Professionals can help them work through the root of their pain and learn safer ways to cope.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/therapy-types\/trauma-focused-cognitive-behavior-therapy\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">TF-CBT<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.emdria.org\/about-emdr-therapy\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">EMDR<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Compassion Focused therapy (<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/therapy-types\/compassion-focused-therapy\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">CFT<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/healing-through-art-why-art-therapy-is-powerful-for-mental-health\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Art therapy<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Solution-Focused Therapy (<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC10098109\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">SFT<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">)<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These therapies help people develop healthier coping strategies and work through emotional struggles.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Help them find healthier coping mechanisms<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People often hurt themselves as a way to release emotions or feel a sense of control. Helping your loved one find safer alternatives\u2014like <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.urmc.rochester.edu\/encyclopedia\/content?ContentID=4552&amp;ContentTypeID=1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">registro em di\u00e1rio<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, art, exercise, listening to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychiatry.org\/News-room\/APA-Blogs\/Power-of-Music-in-Mental-Well-Being\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">music<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, or using <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/click-here-for-happiness\/202208\/what-are-grounding-techniques\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">grounding <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">techniques\u2014can provide them with new ways to manage their feelings. Encourage small steps toward self-care and celebrate progress, no matter how small.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What not to say to someone who self-harms<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When someone is going through a tough time and harming themselves, it can be hard to know what to say. Even if you mean well, some phrases can feel hurtful, dismissive, or make the person feel worse. That&#8217;s why it&#8217;s important to be careful with your words and focus on being supportive. Here are some common things not to say\u2014and why they can be harmful:<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><b>\u201cJust stop doing it.\u201d<\/b><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The urge to hurt yourself isn\u2019t something that people can just turn off. It\u2019s not a simple choice\u2014it\u2019s often a response to painful emotions like sadness, shame, or anger. For many, self-harm becomes a way to cope when their mental health feels out of control. It\u2019s important to remember that breaking this cycle takes time, support, and care\u2014not commands.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><b>\u201cYou\u2019re just doing this for attention.\u201d<\/b><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is one of the most damaging things you can say. In reality, most people\u2014especially adolescents\u2014go to great lengths to hide their self-harming behaviors. They may wear long sleeves, avoid certain activities, or lie about their injuries. Saying this adds to the person\u2019s feelings of guilt and shame and ignores the real emotional pain behind their actions. If someone does speak up or show their scar, they may be looking for understanding\u2014not attention.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><b>\u201cOther people have it worse.\u201d<\/b><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Comparing pain doesn\u2019t help anyone. Everyone\u2019s perception of their pain is different, and telling someone their problems aren\u2019t \u201cbad enough\u201d only makes them feel more alone. Mental health struggles are real, no matter what someone else is going through. Showing empathy and listening without judgment is far more helpful than comparisons.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Self-harm can sometimes be linked to impulsivity, especially during moments of intense emotion. People might act before they think, especially when they feel trapped by sadness or other overwhelming feelings. While the action might be sudden, the pain behind it is very real and usually builds up over time. There is strong evidence that shows these behaviors are often signs of deeper mental health struggles\u2014not just &#8220;bad behavior.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead of saying things that might shut someone down, try to:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Validate their feelings. Say things like, \u201cThat sounds really hard\u201d or \u201cI\u2019m here for you.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Offer support. Encourage them to talk to a trusted adult or therapist.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remind them they\u2019re not alone. Let them know that many people struggle and that it\u2019s okay to ask for help.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Choosing the right words can make a huge difference in someone\u2019s healing journey. When we approach others with kindness and understanding, we help reduce the stigma and make it easier for people to speak up. In the long run, this support can improve someone\u2019s <\/span>quality of life<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and help them find healthier ways to deal with their pain.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pacific Health Group offers compassionate support for recovery<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you or someone you care about is hurting themselves, know that recovery is possible. Healing doesn\u2019t happen overnight, but with the right support, it can happen. There are better ways to cope with pain, and you don\u2019t have to face it all alone.<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/8-unconventional-reasons-to-go-to-therapy\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Terapia<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can help you understand your emotions, build healthy habits, and move toward a stronger future.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Self-harm is often a sign of deep emotional struggle and can be linked to mental health conditions like anxiety, depression, or trauma. These mental health challenges affect how the brain works and should be treated with the same care as any other disease. Ignoring these warning signs can increase the risk of a bigger crisis, but support is always within reach.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At Pacific Health Group, we offer a wide range of\u00a0 behavioral health services. This includes individual,<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/family-therapy-benefits-for-every-family-type\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fam\u00edlia<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, e<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/mental-health-issues-in-teens-understanding-the-facts\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">adolescente<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> therapy with caring professionals who specialize in stress management, anxiety, and trauma recovery. Whether you&#8217;re looking for in-person care or prefer<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/too-busy-for-therapy-telecare-can-be-a-game-changer\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">telessa\u00fade<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> options, we make it easy to get the help you need.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you or someone you love is struggling, reach out today. Call 1-877-811-1217 or visit<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">www.mypacifichealth.com<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Disclaimer: This content is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Vivamus magna justo, lacinia eget consectetur sed, convallis at tellus curabitur non.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5288","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-behavioral-health-services"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5288","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5288"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5288\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5934,"href":"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5288\/revisions\/5934"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5288"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5288"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5288"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}