{"id":5472,"date":"2025-11-17T16:07:42","date_gmt":"2025-11-18T00:37:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/?p=5472"},"modified":"2026-03-05T09:49:32","modified_gmt":"2026-03-05T18:19:32","slug":"redefining-your-tribe-the-importance-of-chosen-family-on-national-family-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/zh\/redefining-your-tribe-the-importance-of-chosen-family-on-national-family-day\/","title":{"rendered":"\u91cd\u65b0\u5b9a\u4e49\u4f60\u7684\u90e8\u843d\u5168\u56fd\u5bb6\u5ead\u65e5\uff1a\"\u5929\u9009\u4e4b\u5bb6\u5ead \"\u7684\u91cd\u8981\u6027"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-justify-content-center fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:1248px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:0px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-order-medium:0;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-order-small:0;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-1 fusion-sep-none fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-one\" style=\"--awb-margin-top-small:10px;--awb-margin-right-small:0px;--awb-margin-bottom-small:10px;--awb-margin-left-small:0px;--awb-font-size:28px;\"><h1 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left\" style=\"margin:0;font-size:1em;\"><h1><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u91cd\u65b0\u5b9a\u4e49\u4f60\u7684\u90e8\u843d\u5168\u56fd\u5bb6\u5ead\u65e5\uff1a\"\u5929\u9009\u4e4b\u5bb6\u5ead \"\u7684\u91cd\u8981\u6027<\/span><\/h1>\n<h1><\/h1><\/h1><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Every November 19, people across the country recognize National Family Day. For many, this holiday sparks images of the nuclear family gathered around a dinner table, swapping stories, laughing, and sharing traditions. But the truth is, not everyone has that picture-perfect scene. Families can be complicated, messy, or even absent.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s why it\u2019s important to broaden our definition of family. Family doesn\u2019t have to be tied by blood. It can also be about love, loyalty, and trust. This is where the idea of a chosen family comes in\u2014a group of people we intentionally surround ourselves with who give us support, acceptance, and a true sense of belonging.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This blog explores how chosen families can shape our mental health, reduce loneliness, and improve our overall well-being. We\u2019ll also look at how building these relationships can serve as a form of self-care, especially during the holiday season when feelings of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nia.nih.gov\/health\/loneliness-and-social-isolation\/loneliness-and-social-isolation-tips-staying-connected\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">social isolation<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> often rise.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is a chosen family?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A chosen family is the group of people you decide to call your own, whether or not you\u2019re biologically related. These are the friends, mentors, neighbors, or community members who show up for you without judgment. Unlike traditional kinship, chosen families are formed out of mutual care and commitment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Throughout history, people have relied on chosen families. The <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/zh\/lgbtqia-mental-health-affirming-therapy-support\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">LGBTQ community<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, for example, has long created strong networks of love and support, especially when acceptance from biological relatives wasn\u2019t available. Immigrants, single parents, and people navigating cultural shifts often form similar bonds to build a sense of community.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sociologists like <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/iep.utm.edu\/emile-durkheim\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c9mile Durkheim<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> have shown how humans naturally organize into groups. Whether through sociology or social psychology, research makes one thing clear: family is as much about connection and meaning as it is about bloodlines.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why is chosen family important?<\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The importance of a support system isn\u2019t just emotional\u2014it\u2019s scientific. Studies in psychology and psychiatry show that strong social support networks protect against mental health struggles.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Loneliness and social isolation are considered a public health issue, with the U.S. Surgeon General calling it a \u201c<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.hhs.gov\/sites\/default\/files\/surgeon-general-social-connection-advisory.pdf\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">loneliness epidemic<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Without supportive relationships, risks of major depressive disorder, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/zh\/national-prevention-week-substance-use-prevention\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">substance abuse,<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> anxiety, and even suicidal ideation increase.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Older adults are especially vulnerable, with loneliness in <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/zh\/mental-health-support-for-older-adults\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">old age<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> linked to poor physical health, higher blood pressure, and lower quality of life.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But here\u2019s the hopeful part: when people experience empathy, emotional support, and a strong sense of community, their mood improves, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/zh\/understanding-the-physical-effects-of-stress-on-your-body\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u538b\u529b\u8377\u5c14\u8499<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> like cortisol drop, and they feel safer and more resilient. In short, having a chosen family can literally change your mental state.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What are the benefits of a sense of belonging?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Belonging isn\u2019t just a nice feeling\u2014it\u2019s a human need. Psychologist <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.simplypsychology.org\/maslow.html\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Abraham Maslow <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">placed \u201clove and belonging\u201d right in the middle of his hierarchy of needs, after safety but before achievement.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Community psychology and social psychology research have explored why being part of a group matters:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Group cohesiveness and solidarity make us feel valued.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A peer group or community of practice offers both informational support and emotional support.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC2921311\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u7814\u7a76<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> shows that people with strong support systems report lower psychological stress and greater emotional resilience.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This science backs up what we already know from experience: belonging heals. A hug from a trusted friend, a late-night conversation with a roommate, or a mentor\u2019s encouragement can help us recover from setbacks and face challenges with more confidence.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is the difference between a toxic relationship and a healthy one?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of course, not all relationships are created equal. Sometimes, we find ourselves in <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/toxic-relationships-4174665\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">toxic relationships <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">that do more harm than good. Signs may include:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Psychological abuse or verbal abuse<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/basics\/gaslighting\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gaslighting <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">or manipulation<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Domestic violence<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Patterns of codependency or codependent relationships<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These situations can create long-lasting damage to self-esteem, increase stress, and leave people vulnerable to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mayoclinic.org\/diseases-conditions\/depression\/symptoms-causes\/syc-20356007\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u6d3c\u5730<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u6216 <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mayoclinic.org\/diseases-conditions\/anxiety\/symptoms-causes\/syc-20350961\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u7126\u8651<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On the flip side, healthy relationships\u2014whether friendship, romance, or family\u2014offer trust, honesty, and care. They encourage confidence, provide comfort during grief, and help with <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/zh\/3-different-types-of-stress-and-how-they-affect-you\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u5f3a\u8c03 <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">management. Even when navigating challenges like marriage problems, long-distance relationships, or breakups, having a healthy support network makes coping easier.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to build your own support system<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So how do you start building your own chosen family? It takes intention, openness, and sometimes a little bravery.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Join communities: Faith groups, clubs, or local organizations can be the starting point.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Engage in wellness practices: Activities like yoga, exercise, or relaxation can connect you to like-minded people.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have meaningful conversations: Authentic conversation deepens interpersonal relationships and build trust.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Create and honor rituals: Whether it\u2019s Sunday dinners, weekly movie nights, or shared traditions, rituals reinforce belonging.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you struggle with social anxiety disorder, emotional loneliness, or feelings of solitude, know that you\u2019re not alone. Building connection is a process, and even small steps toward social support can make a difference.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When to seek professional help<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, the weight of stress, depression, or a mental disorder feels too heavy to manage alone. That\u2019s when reaching out to a professional can be life-changing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some signs that you may need to seek help:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Persistent loneliness or feelings of social isolation<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Struggling with anxiety, stress, or major depressive disorder<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Experiencing grief that feels overwhelming or unmanageable<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Difficulty breaking free from toxic relationships, psychological abuse, or codependency<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ongoing marriage problems or conflicts with loved ones<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Feeling trapped in cycles of substance abuse or unhealthy coping behaviors<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Having thoughts of suicidal ideation or deep emotional pain<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Trouble managing stress from work, caregiving, or life transitions<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Facing challenges with self-esteem, confidence, or maintaining healthy interpersonal relationships<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Needing tools to cope with social anxiety disorder, emotional loneliness, or patterns of negative thinking<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/zh\/8-unconventional-reasons-to-go-to-therapy\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u6cbb\u7597 <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">provides tools for navigating relationships, building resilience, and breaking unhealthy patterns.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How Pacific Health Group can help you\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At Pacific Health Group, we believe everyone deserves support, whether it comes from biological relatives or a chosen family. That\u2019s why we offer a range of behavioral health services designed to help you build stronger, healthier connections.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Our care includes:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Individual therapy to work through personal challenges<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/zh\/family-therapy-benefits-for-every-family-type\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u5bb6\u5ead\u6cbb\u7597<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to strengthen bonds at home<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Counseling is available both in-person and through <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/mypacifichealth.com\/zh\/too-busy-for-therapy-telecare-can-be-a-game-changer\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u8fdc\u7a0b\u533b\u7597<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re ready to invest in yourself and nurture the relationships that matter most, contact Pacific Health Group today. Let us help you redefine what family means\u2014and remind you that you never have to face life alone. 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